Happy Friyay My Darlings! OMG, I am BEYOND elated that this week is almost over!!!! There were times I was sure I wouldn’t make it through! But I’m here now! “WON’T HE DO IT?” ??? Okay so, today I have a question: what is it that certain people find so alluring about the unavailable”? To help explain where I am coming from with this, please see the scenarios below: Scenario #1 - Girl spots a handsome dude at the gym Girl: You must work out a lot, you have a beautiful body Guy: Thank you, my fiancé seems to think so too Girl: Well you’re not married yet… … [Read more...]
What Men Want – The List of Life
Hiya folks! Happy Hump Day!! I hope your week has been great thus far! Okay so, you know I like to share whatever I learn with you all in hopes that we can all do better, together. To that end, my dear ladies, below please find a list of "30 Things Nigerian Husbands Want and Expect From Our Wives." While this note supposedly comes from Nigerian men, I honestly believe a lot of what is presented can be applied to women all over. Disclaimer: I DID NOT WRITE THE LIST BELOW! My mom sent it to my siblings and me. I found it HILARIOUS, so I decided to share. So please … [Read more...]
Love Speak
Hello friends! Happy New Week. I hope this post finds you well. Okay so last Saturday, on a six-hour road trip back from my friend's graduation, me and my girls had a number of scintillating conversations. We touched on everything. From traveling to family, politics to health care. Eventually, the conversation to an insightful turn to the topic: love language. OA: Do you know what your love languages are? Me: Umm no, what is that exactly? OA: Some doctor wrote a book called The Five Love Languages. According to this Dr. Gary Chapman, there are five … [Read more...]
Full Disclosure or Nah?
I got sunshine on a cloudy day When it's cold outside, I've got the month of May I, guess, you, say What can make me feel this way? FRIDAY! FRIDAY! FRIDAY! ??? Hello and Happy Friday Friends! I trust it is well with you all. Okay so, I have a question: what is your take on getting to know someone and full disclosure? I have wanted to write about this for some time now, but I guess I never had a real incentive to. In the multiple conversations with family and friends, I've come to learn that people have mixed feelings about it: One friend said … [Read more...]
Half – Confession / Half – Storisode
Happy Tuesday everybody!!! I hope you all are off to the best week. I'll like to start off on a grateful note. I was torn last Friday. Uncertain as to if I should put out a post that mirrored the feelings and defeat I felt at the time. Or if I should put out a funny story and act like the everything was perfect. I'm glad I went with the former as the feedback, encouragement and love I received reminded me why I do what I do here. On that note, I say THANK YOU EVERYONE who responded. I am grateful for every prayer, email, Instagram tag, whatsapp message, text and … [Read more...]