Happy Post-Long Weekend Tuesday Everyone! I hope you all had a fun/safe/relaxing time. Okay so has anyone else ever wondered if feminism benefits men more so than woman? I was at a dinner with some family and friends over the weekend when the topic "feminism" came up. There was talk about how men are using feminism to their advantage. To explain this notion, someone shared the following story: Single ladies, please picture this; You are seeing someone and in your mind, this man is the one God ordained as your husband. Everything is still going great. So … [Read more...]
Tradeoffs
Happy April! Happy Easter and Happy O'Day my beautiful people! I hope April has been good to you. Okay so a few weeks ago, I got home early from work with nothing to do, so I decided to watch Keeping Up with the Kardashians. I don't care much for reality TV but it was the episode about Kim's robbery so I was curious. As she narrated the chain of events to her sisters, I got a tad teary-eyed because it dawned on me that this was a really traumatic experience that happened to a real human being. Millionaire reality-superstar or not, at that moment, Kim was a regular … [Read more...]
Full Disclosure or Nah?
I got sunshine on a cloudy day When it's cold outside, I've got the month of May I, guess, you, say What can make me feel this way? FRIDAY! FRIDAY! FRIDAY! ??? Hello and Happy Friday Friends! I trust it is well with you all. Okay so, I have a question: what is your take on getting to know someone and full disclosure? I have wanted to write about this for some time now, but I guess I never had a real incentive to. In the multiple conversations with family and friends, I've come to learn that people have mixed feelings about it: One friend said … [Read more...]
. . . Date Etiquette #2
Happy Friyay y'all!!! How was your week? I won't lie, this week put me through hell and high water. I think I may have over committed myself to a number of obligations and it took it's toll on me. BUT! THANK GOD IT'S FRIDAY! I am still here so I am definitely stronger! With everything that went down this week, I was going to write a motivational post today with a story about one of the challenges I faced and how my support system helped me through. But then something RIDICULOUS happened this morning that I'd love you guys to opine on! Okay so someone I know is … [Read more...]
Men, how far?
*singing* Been long you saw me Yes boo, I've been gone since last week Been in Jand, yes I went to Pari Now I'm back so no need to miss me miss me ??????Don Jazzy hook me up!!! HELLO MY LOVES!!! How have you been? I hope you've all been at your best! Okay so, I'll really like to know when did laziness/complacency become the new male-standard? I ask because events from the past week have made me wonder what exactly people (and by people, I mean men) are doing? While this is not a man-bashing post, (and I apologize if it comes off as such), I'm … [Read more...]